porn addiction & sexual health

One of the biggest misconceptions in my field of work is that NOFAP is the best way to get porn out of men’s lives. I do NOT believe in this movement, in regard to porn addiction, in regard to healing, in regard to recovery and self-love, and I do not promote it at all. In fact, I encourage a healthy relationship with self. HEALTHY MASTURBATION (aka Conscious Self Pleasure) is about self-love, self-care and self-pleasure. How can you expect another person to navigate and appreciate your body when you don’t have that relationship with yourself? NOFAP sets men up for failure. Watch this video…

 
 

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Book RESOURCES

#1 AMAZON BEST SELLER - THE UNCENSORED THREAT AT WILL TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT PORN0GRAPHY, SEXUALITY, MASCULINITY, AND MENTAL HEALTH.

I’m here to offer men of all ages truth, hope, education, and support, as we openly investigate and discuss the private struggles, the guilt and shame, and the misunderstood symptoms of porn addiction.

In this raw and brutally honest deep dive, you will come to understand:

  • My personal journey with men - dating, sexual misconduct, domestic violence, and connection.

  • The negative impact porn is having on men, women, and kids in society as you read stories of trauma and devastation.

  • The 12 benefits of quitting porn and freeing yourself permanently from poor energy and being a slave to pornography.

  • How to overcome porn addiction in two weeks and have bigger full-body orgasms.

  • Why brain damage from porn addiction is driving mental health issues to unprecedented heights, and why so many men are taking their own lives.

  • How pornography has rendered generations of boys and men sexually and socially dysfunctional.

  • How the NoFap movement is suppressing male sexuality and setting men up for failure.

  • How to harness and master sexual energy and have better s*x and better performance in life.

  • The secret to correcting erectile dysfunction so you can overcome anxiety and feel sexually confident.

“I can’t believe how thorough and layered the content is! It’s insane in an amazing way.”

“Wow! This information really blew my mind! I loved the connection between human behaviours and their root cause relating to hormones. It helped me understand the core issues rather than just knowing surface issues.”

“I loved the tone of your writing, it’s always very engaging, and I’ve read a lot of stuff on this topic. Your approach is effective because it is health-based rather than ethically based.”

“Every man would benefit from reading this book, and certainly anyone watching porn.”

“I think your book is excellent. It flowed perfectly and I think that’s one of your gifts.”

“Wow! I found it confronting. It definitely has some uncomfortable truths in there, so much of what you have written resonates on a personal level.”

“I know I need help, and reading this has made me realise the damage. You have articulated well a big problem that requires addressing. Sadly, much of it describes me, but I feel men everywhere need to read this.”

 
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what no one told you about pornography

I’m meeting men every day that were a lot younger than 12 when they started looking at porn and masturbating. Age 5 - 10 is coming up a lot, and these men are in their 40’s and 50’s now, so the internet wasn’t even around then.

I don’t think most people understand what’s happening out there now. To our teens, who have porn in their pockets and are killing their brains and bodies over this. You’ll never be able to ‘control’ what they see on their devices, even with supervision and blockers... it’s on Google and they’re sending it to each other. EDUCATION is KEY!!

This book was written to address all the issues our young men are facing. Please read it so you may understand the DEVASTATION this is causing.

I feel so inspired reading this, admittedly I did feel some discomfort in the beginning, which is why I wanted to read it. You have approached this topic head on, yet with compassion. I got a lot out of it and it has changed how I relate to my partner.
— Laura
 
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free - what your mates don’t tell you about porn

This is my free snapshot at porn addiction, and my very first publication. If you’re viewing porn more than once a month it’s classified as an addiction. Which includes any kind of visual stimulus, right down to the girls on Instagram.

Are you avoiding sex because you can't get or maintain an erection?

Are you finding it difficult achieving orgasm with a woman?

Are your energy levels depleted?

Are you suffering from anxiety more than ever?

Are you pulling back from intimate relationships?

 
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free - Improve erections effectively

Erectile Dysfunction (ED) affects more men than the stats say. According to the internet, it’s 1 in 5.

I work a little differently to the doctors and ED clinics, and my research came back 50%. But even that isn’t an accurate reflection of what’s really going on.

I classify ED as issues with erections, premature ejaculation, and difficulty reaching orgasm. All the things to do with the penis. And I’ve discovered that around 50% of the men I see didn’t even know they had ED until they took away porn.

So my estimate, based on the facts of my Practice, it’s up around 95%. Not 1 in 5. Basically, the only men that don’t have ED are the ones who don’t watch porn. And I’ve only met 21 men in that category in my entire career.

In fact, I’ve never met a man who has ED where the cause wasn’t porn addiction. It’s 100% of cases, even the men who are older, have diabetes, on high blood pressure meds, smoke, take anti-depressants... it always comes back to porn usage.

 
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free - essential oils for sexual health

Is Erectile Dysfunction ruining your life? Are you looking to improve your sexual health naturally? Essential Oils are AMAZING for so many things - emotional and physical. My recommendations are specifically for men and sexual health issues – erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, exhaustion, and mental health issues. They have incredible healing properties as you’ll see!

 
Mastering sexual energy and learning how to drop into your body, connecting to another person on an intense energetic level... that’s what makes mind-blowing sex!
— Catherine Lyell

PROGRAMS TO MASTER SEXUAL ENERGY AND QUIT PORN

 
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2 WEEK CHALLENGE

It's time to take your usual habits and behaviours around masturbation and porn, into a more conscious self-pleasuring experience. When you take porn and women out of the equation, what are you left with? Well...we are about to find out!

Can you get and maintain an erection? Can you edge? Can you orgasm on cue? Can you drop into your body and feel? Can you harness your sexual energy? Can you orgasm without ejaculation? Can you have multiple orgasms? And can you do it all without porn?

We are going to establish where your natural sexual energy sits, and to see what happens when you rely on organic touch and stimulation.

After 4 weeks I’m feeling calmer and more positive, and have also noticed an increase in confidence. I’m now more open about talking about sexuality, masturbation and sex with friends. I’m loving the content, its very informative and I’m learning so much. I’d highly recommend this program, it’s life changing stuff!
— Michael
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30 DAY PROGRAM

Do you suffer from erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation? Are you looking for stronger erections and orgasms? Are you watching porn once a month or more?

Lockdown has driven pornography use through the roof, globally. Not only did porn addiction become rife, mental health issues and erectile dysfunction increased tenfold! So I created this new program FROM PORN TO PLEASURE. It’s a 30 Day guided Program for men, including a 1:1 Coaching Session (60 mins) and 30 days of SMS coaching and support. It’s jampacked with content and bonuses.

I’m getting harder and longer lasting erections. I’ve become fully aware of my low energy and tension/anxiety in my body due to porn. I’m less anxious, more confident, and happier with myself. I’m getting morning erections all the time now, and having huge orgasms. I would recommend all men do this program.
— Liam
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AWAKEN YOUR SEX GOD - 90 DAY PROGRAM

Are you sick of feeling guilt and shame around pornography? Are you annoyed at yourself for not being able to stop? Are you constantly feeling unsatisfied and anxious with this relentless compulsion that drives you to empty ejaculation? And what about your erections, have they disappeared?

This program is for men who are feeling; anxious, disconnected, inadequate, and unsatisfied with their porn habits, their sexual energy and their sex life. You’ll most likely have erectile dysfunction; difficulty maintaining erections, premature ejaculation, or difficulty reaching orgasm... normally coupled with performance anxiety.

You get access to my knowledge, unrelenting weekly support and expertise for 3 months, holding your hand all the way. There’s so much content and value it’s ridiculous! If you want to heal your sexuality and master your life, then this program is for you!!

I’d highly recommend this program because of the mental tasks and personal development. I thought this program gave me a lot of coping tools and I have a better understanding of mental health now.
— Robert